A. R. Bernard

Alphonso R. Bernard, Sr. is the pastor of the Christian Cultural Center Megachurch in Brooklyn, New York. He is the author of many books. Here are a few of A.R. Bernard quotes.



Our choices determine our destiny.

A.R. Bernard


When a woman feels understood, it is easier for her to feel loved. When she feels loved, she is more inclined to give of herself in the relationship.

A.R. Bernard


The Man from Galilee taught us that a successful marriage isn’t about selfishness; it’s about selflessness.

A.R. Bernard


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We’ve come to believe, wrongly, that the roles of husband and wife are interchangeable.

A.R. Bernard


We’ve confused equal treatment under the law with equal roles inside the marriage.

A.R. Bernard


Society tells us that fame, power, appearance, and money are all-important, so women today naturally seek these traits in a man.

A.R. Bernard


Wives know their husbands better than anyone—other than God, of course—does. But often, women don’t understand themselves as well as they understand their men.

A.R. Bernard


Women don’t want a man who is immature. They don’t want a man who is indecisive. They don’t want a man who is inconsistent and they don’t want a man who is weak,

A.R. Bernard


Maturity doesn’t come with age; it begins with the acceptance of responsibility.

A.R. Bernard


Contrary to the title of the book, women don’t know what they want, but they do know what they don’t want, and on that basis, I wrote the book.

A.R. Bernard


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